Coaching to develop children's emotional intelligence

“There is clear evidence that emotionally developed people, that is, people who adequately govern their feelings, and who also know how to interpret and relate effectively with the feelings of others, enjoy an advantageous situation in all domains of life, from dating and intimate relationships to understanding the unspoken rules that govern success within an organization. People who have adequately developed emotional skills tend to feel more satisfied, more effective, and better able to master the mental habits that determine productivity. ”

“Daniel Goleman”

Why teach your children Emotional Intelligence or use coaching for children?

We often think that children do not have problems, but they are quite expected to make good grades, to do all the extracurricular activities well, and also to balance it with social and family life. If they are unable to do so, they may experience low self-esteem, negative thoughts, and loss of motivation to achieve their own goals.

Coaching for children

There are studies that indicate that children who have received social and emotional support seem to develop greater strength in the brain circuits to master anxiety and assimilate knowledge more effectively, which is reflected in their notes.

Child Coaching is a way to teach them to move in their environment with more personality, to assume their responsibilities in a better way, also being an aid to improve school performance. Also, this type of Coaching is intended as an important tool of self-esteem and self-protection for those children who suffer from bulliyng or for those who do.

If you teach a child to manage his emotions and improve his social skills through coaching and emotional development, he will grow to be an adult with social and emotional skills, he will know how to communicate effectively, he will have more contacts and solid friendships, better relationships with his family, You will have better health because if you want you will take care of yourself.

Coaching for children is beneficial to help them:

  • Realize that they can change a situation they are not happy about.
  • Understand the situation they are in.
  • See that they are responsible for their own actions.
  • Increase your confidence to make positive changes in the way you act, think and feel.
  • Develop essential life skills.
  • Be better people, and thus teach your loved ones to be better
  • Relax and don't fall into nervous, angry or angry states
  • Know how to communicate in an assertive way without abusing or being abused
  • Learn to self-motivate and know how to be constant and can be better at whatever they do
  • To see mistakes as a way to learn
  • To be motivated in sports
  • To eat in a balanced way
  • To rest better
What kinds of problems can be solved with children's coaching?

Stress management.

Challenging negative thoughts and beliefs.

The friendships.

The anxiety.

The wrath.

School problems.

Family difficulties, including separation from parents.

Sibling rivalry.

Se puede trabajar con los niños sobre cualquier asunto que el niño o el padre sientan que necesitan ayuda. Tener confianza de tu hijo para hablar puede ser muy beneficioso, especialmente si el problema está relacionado con la familia.

How do you work with children?

Before the first session, you should always have a phone conversation with the parents, so you know what topics to address. With this in mind, the first session with the child is always asking the child what he would like to talk about. It is important to address what is on the child's mind before going to the parent's agenda. The question that the parents have raised is studied and presented later. In the event that the child manifests the same problem as the parents, then the problem begins to be solved immediately.

It seems that being a child is fun and does not carry any responsibility, but getting good grades, having friends, doing well what parents demand of them and also doing extra-school activities is often stressful for a child.

What is the age range?

You can start from 4 to 11 years old

NLP and coaching for children

With Neurolinguistic Programming or NLP and coaching, children will learn creative techniques to learn to visualize and suggest their minds with positive messages, motivate themselves to improve their self-esteem, develop their personality and be able to bring out the best in themselves.

Teresa Echeverria

Barrio de Gros San Sebastián

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